Many of my professional successes have come through referrals, especially when I clearly articulate what I’m looking for and make it easy for others to pass that information along. Recently, I decided to apply that same approach to a more personal search: finding the right romantic partner.

My friend, investor, and longtime mentor, Brad Feld, recently released his new book: Give First, the Power of Mentorship. Give First means simply trying to help anyone, especially entrepreneurs, without expecting financial compensation or anything specific in return.

Does upcoming travel create a fair amount of apprehension, in addition to anticipation? Sheila explores her own feelings on this subject, including personal daydreams involving easier options, as well as possible ways of coping with the actual reality of the experience.