Knowing that you hold all the right cards in a conflict can feel satisfying, energizing even. Until the game ends and you may not feel as if you actually won. Sheila explores these feelings, sharing some personal experiences and lessons learned.

A recent experience has Sheila reflecting on the perks of going outside our comfort levels by trying something new.

Our own voices sound different (and better!) in our heads than in a recording. That observation led Sheila to consider all the other ways people can “hear” the same thing in different ways, and the interpersonal issues that can cause. What would happen if we paused to ask “do you hear what I hear?"